You must search inside yourself for what is unique you,when you find it, polish it until it becomes your style. It's no good being a pig farmer for 30 years, looking back and saying, I was meant to be a ballet dancer. By this time, pigs are your style.所以说，这个片子的内核不是讨论gay rights，而是在讨论一个人的腔调从何而来。不管他是同性恋还是异性恋，Quentin都是个头路非常清楚的人。而成为同性恋，寻求一个real man永远不得（ the essence of a real is that he does not fall in love with his own sex）则让他变得孤独而清醒。选择你的型，成为你所标签的你，承受应有的痛苦。睿智来自于生活的苦涩和逝去年龄，和性取向没有关系。不是说成为了同性恋就是时髦和惹人爱怜，建筑工人和卡车司机型的gay要多少有多少。
最后用Quentin的语录共勉: If your happiness is entirely dependent on another's love, you'll never truly be happy. If your love isvaluable to you, it is because you give it. You must be ready to expect nothing in return.Once you accept this, your heart will never broken again. 去爱，去付出而不计较所得，成就更圆满的自己。
